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Age: 17
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Ok, long story short, I fell in love with one of my best friend over the summer. Yes, I'm 13. Yes, I know you're about to tell me that this is mere infatuation rather than love. I'm just gonna spare you a 1 rating: It's not infatuation. I know love, and I know infatuation. And this is definitely love. I can feel it as right as 2+2 is 4. Anydangways, she knows very well how much I love her, but she still only likes me as a friend. Now that the school year's started again, our attitudes have sort of changed. We used to joke around all the time, but nowadays, we see each other in the halls, and either we just say "hi" or we stay silent or involved in our conversations. Personally, whenever I'm talking to my friends in the halls, and then I see her coming, I'm suddenly turn silent and I say something like "Yeah, I know, I'm weird." or "Yeah. That's it." Or something to end conversation and not embarass myself. Also, I've been hoping to see her: whenever I'm near where she lives and talking to someone about something, I think, "I'd better make this conversation a bit smarter in case she comes near. Just to be safe" or something like that. And I'm always trying to impress her. I don't know why, we're best friends, and she knows how much I love her. What's going on? Why do I just suddenly lose all my intelligence, self-respect, and logical reasoning, not to mention my will to do what I please, whenever I think about her? It's like in that manga D.N.Angel, whenever Daisuke thinks about Risa, he becomes Dark and loses control of his body. Sorry, I babble a lot. I'd better stop now. Please help me! (link)
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What you need to do is relax,when she saids hi then tell her something good that happened or something bad in the news or something funny,see her reaction,she will most likely continue the conversation.It's normal to start losing control when your near someone you like it happens to a lot of people.By the way you should also ask about her life like what is she interested in,her family or how is she doing in her classes so she see's that you are really into her.You could also ask your one of your friends to help you talk to her and even better if you too are alone to have a good talk without interruptions.You could also think of what you are going to say to her before you start a conversation.
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Rating: 5
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Thanks mate... I dunno why, but when someone else tells me to talk to (her, my) friends, it makes no sense. But the way you put it I think I will! =)
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