Gender: Female
Location: Missouri
Member Since: September 6, 2005
Answers: 23
Last Update: October 24, 2005
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Before I start I'm a sixteen year old girl.
Well I have my first boyfriend now but that's not what this is about. Well you see my friend is feeling left out because both me and our other friend now have boyfriends and she doesn't. She has liked this same boy for three years now but nothing is happening between them. He hardly even looks at her anymore. She doesn't want to give up on him because she knows she won't like any other guy. I keep telling her to go up and talk to him but she is the shy "wait for him to come to me" kind of girl. I feel bad for her but I don't want to break up with my boyfirned just because she is feeling left out. She has met and gets along really well with both my boyfriend and our other friend's boyfriend but she never wants to go anywhere with any of us. I would never put my boyfriend above my friends and my boyfriend understands that. We ask her to come to football games or movies with us all the time but she thinks she'd be getting in the way. What should I do? (link)
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Well first off I would suggest having a special "girls night out" You know go see amovie go shopping whatever you guys used to do before you got boyfriends.
Not this may just be me but you should butt in and become a match maker. Talk to the guy she likes or have your boyfriends talk to him. Don't allow either of you to tell or give a hint ot him about your friend liking him because that could mess everything up. Ask him if there is a special girl he is looking at. If he answers yes then ask who is it. But don't say it quiet like that. Do things your own way but get them together if they like each other.
About your friend being shy tell her that she doesn't need a guy to make her happy and that if she wants him to go and get him. Push her teach her.
If you need anymore help them just email me at charmedgirl4sure@yahoo.com Hope my advice has helped. -ask2recieve
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Well we still have girls nights out about once or twice a month. About the match maker thing, well I wouldn't know what to say to her boy to get things to work out. My boyfriend graduated last year so there is really no way for him to talk to him and my other friend's boyfriend is always busy with sports and marching band so I'm not sure if he'd have time to play match maker.
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