About Swe3ti3boO
Well, having gone through alot of struggles in my life, if there's anything I've learned its that that one saying "what doesn't kill you, will only make you stronger" this is SO true.
My screen name or nickname takes after the nickname my father gave me, however he's no longer here but I know he's up there watching me. Other than that, there have been quite a few, well, more than a few struggles that I've had to endure throughout my 17 years and I'm still going through stuff now. I'm not your average 17 y/o and I don't say that on false pretense, get to know me and you'll see.
My overcoming of struggles has taught me so much about life, alot more than school, even though the struggles may have caused me much anger and pain, I'm still here standing.
hm.. well, I've been a Boxer for the past 12 years. I stopped for a little moment for personal reasons (I'm one of the highest ranked Boxers of my class which landing me a job that I ultimately love;; I'm also a trainer in other words, I now have my own students who I can annoy the crap out of...) hehe
Anyways, I've put down the website thats linked to all my other profiles, hope you enjoy but even if you don't, noone said you had to. If theres definitly one thing about me, its that I'm real, I may come off harsh, but please understand, its just me being honest and straight forward. I'm doing this to help people, which is the best feeling in the world.
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Location: New York
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Age: 17
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Ok.. im sorry if this gets long and confusing, but i really need help & ive got a lot on my mind.. so this will get long!!
So theres this boy, and i like him so much! the thing is.. we went out before.. and he was so great! then we broke up about 2 months later because his feelings werent as strong for me as he thought. but i still like him. we talked about going out but he didnt think it was a very good idea, but he did like me. ( we go to different schools, by the way. ) we see each other every monday, wednesday, and friday. and i think thats good enough? ever since we broke up we've been best friends.. and that makes me like him even more. about 4 months after we broke up, he asked me out again. he said for sure his feelings were strong. so i said yes, because i was madly in love with him!! he had a dance at his school, he asked me to go but i couldnt because of cheerleading practice. so i came home and checked my messages on my cell fone and one of my good friends that goes to his school called me. i called her back right away. she told me so much stuff! like the boy danced with another girl.. that didnt really bother me. but then she said they made out and he went to her house afterwards. i was crying so much!! i called his cell fone and the GIRL answered. [ to make it all worse, it was the girl i hate because she did the same exact thing with my old boyfriend. ] so me and the boy talked and he denied everything. i could not believe him. this was about 2 weeks ago. but i still love him so much!! see, thats the thing. after all he did and after all the pain i went through.. i keep on loving him. i keep on begging for him! it sucks =( i cry so much about it but theres nothing i can do.
so my question is :
what should i do!? follow my heart and still crush on him.. or give up on him?!
I LOVE HIM SOOOOO MUCH
I've been through this exact situation. Your still young and trust me baby girl, even though you may argue against it, its not "love" its more along the lines of infatuation. When you and this boy (I'll call him Mike), when you and mike were to together I'm sure it was new and very beautiful to you. In fact, I bet you were completely confused as to why or how you thought it was so great between you two but he thought in his own way, it was lame. However, maybe he wasn't sure of the type of person you were and in those 4 months of friendship, he got to real recognize you for you.
It seems as if he wants a chica he can come back to, but because he goes to a different school, he seems to think he can do as he pretty much pleases. You let him know chica, "Nuh-uh, I'm too good for this, either your with me because you truly care about me and don't want noone else, or you say its over right now." You have to have the strength to let him know, you won't put up with the hurt any longer. If you stay with him, the hurt he continues to inflict on you, you will only deserve. But see chica, you don't deserve to be hurt and crushed at such a young age, you need to experience things. Love at this age shouldn't be one of them unless this boy deserves your love. I know it hurts like hell, but if he can't respect you, then theres truly no sense in having him. You don't want to be continuously hurt and have your self-esteem dragged down. Save yourself sweetie, because when I didn't, my heart was ruined and it was so hard to trust any guy afterwards. If you stay, it'll only screw you up. Best of luck, sweetz! *MuaHz*
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thanks so much =)
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