About Swe3ti3boO
Well, having gone through alot of struggles in my life, if there's anything I've learned its that that one saying "what doesn't kill you, will only make you stronger" this is SO true.
My screen name or nickname takes after the nickname my father gave me, however he's no longer here but I know he's up there watching me. Other than that, there have been quite a few, well, more than a few struggles that I've had to endure throughout my 17 years and I'm still going through stuff now. I'm not your average 17 y/o and I don't say that on false pretense, get to know me and you'll see.
My overcoming of struggles has taught me so much about life, alot more than school, even though the struggles may have caused me much anger and pain, I'm still here standing.
hm.. well, I've been a Boxer for the past 12 years. I stopped for a little moment for personal reasons (I'm one of the highest ranked Boxers of my class which landing me a job that I ultimately love;; I'm also a trainer in other words, I now have my own students who I can annoy the crap out of...) hehe
Anyways, I've put down the website thats linked to all my other profiles, hope you enjoy but even if you don't, noone said you had to. If theres definitly one thing about me, its that I'm real, I may come off harsh, but please understand, its just me being honest and straight forward. I'm doing this to help people, which is the best feeling in the world.
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Website: Swe3ti3 boO
Gender: Female
Location: New York
Occupation: Boxing Instructor
Age: 17
AIM: Swe3ti3boO
Yahoo: Swe3ti3boO
Member Since: September 19, 2005
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Last Update: April 14, 2006
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okay i have a friend who liked me since he met me which was elementary and i liked him to but i never knew he liked me so i never told him so years later i found out he liked me and he still likes me so i was so happy it was like a dream come true but then he had a girl friend and he just blew me off after telling me he was in love with me this whole time so i moved on and met this other guy and fell in love with him and so my friend dumped his girl friend and started calling me and told me he sees him getting married with me when he gets older and that he will never for get me and boom he asked me out sayin he loves me but i said no i mean i like him but i already moved on and now i told him lets just be friends but some part of me really wants him but hes the type of guy where he will like you and then he will like someone else so yea well he calls me and tells me that still but then he tells me he like is in love with 3 or more other girls i mean what is with that i told him hes a player and he said no but now he just calls me talking about another girl and i still like him i need some help badly....
Well, this boy is obviously confused and has no idea what he's doing. At any chance he may think he has, he'll take. For some girls, yes, this is a good thing, however for other girls, example: your case, this isn't so good. Ask yourself truly, what is he doing? Are his actions speaking louder than words? Or are his words falling down flat as his actions say otherwise? My best advice to you, I know you like this boy, but understand in the long run, would it truly work out between him and you? He seem's like the type to get bored easily, if you ended up falling head over heels in love with him, would he push you to the side? No one can help who their attracted to, if it were that easy, "true love" would practically be extinct or be too over-rated. Chica, its gonna be hard, but you have to cut him off.
Take it step by step, when he calls, say your busy or about to go somewhere. When you see him, just say you don't have time to talk. Eventually take it to the next step to where you don't ever answer his calls and you can walk passed him without looking even once. He'll get the clue. Just please don't sacrifice your relationship and your feelings for someone who has no idea what in God's name those things even are. Good Luck, Chica! *MuaHz*
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hey thankx for the advice i think your rite i will try not to talk to him as much and see how it goes and ill get back to you
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