hello i am a 25 year old mom, i am married to a wonderful man for 7 years. i have been there and done that, so i can answer alot of questions from experence.
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ok...so me and this boy have been friends for like...ever, and we hug and tease each other and hang out all the time, and my other friend (amanda) has liked him for a really long time. Heres the problem part...so me and the boy ended up going out to dinner alone (we were suposed to go with other people but everyone couldnt go) and this was like one of teh first times we really hung out alone together and wellwhen we got into his car we started kissing and it felt so so so right and great, and then he pulled away for a second and said r you sure you want to and I nodded my head and then we started making out, and we have like talked on the phone everyday after that and we have been out alone together a few more times and kissed and everything,but none of our friends know so, when ever we are with them its really akward (mostly with amanda) So how should we brake ti to them, and should i tell amanda sepratly? i really want to keep teh friendship
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i would for sure tell her seperatly. if she is a true friend she will be happy for you. you cant help the fact of who you like. you definatly cant help the fact that it happens to be someone a friend also likes. if they have had no previous realationship other than friends i dont think you are doing anything wrong. just being honest with her will let her know you value your friendship. she may be upset but i think she will feel better with you being honest than keeping it behind her back. generally people come to the conclusion if you are hiding something then you feel guilty and are doing something wrong. if you guys are serious about being together and doing it only because you actually like each other and not treying to get back at anyone, then there is no reason to hide it. i dont think it is a credible or should i say real relationship until you can share it with the world, and be able to say now that is my man.
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