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Who I am is of no great consequence. I am a traveler of the Way. Having only seen a glimpse of the great and terrible storm that lingers around us, I can help anyone who wishes my help; all one need to do is ask. Every so often, the winds will change this message giving a new insight on the misfortune that lingers in days to come in our departure from the harbor we commence our voyage.
Some will not understand wisdom that hides in these words, for them I must say in time it all become clear. To understand these words one must have patients, experience, an open mind, and a willingness to learn. If you have these traits (in one form or another), and desire these words of wisdom, then ask away.
Love my friends, is a cherished treasure. Those who find in it purest form, will desirer nothing else. Those who do not will have an emptiness that the world can never fill.
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We all will love something in our time, it is inevitable. However whether we chose to act upon that love is another, we can let it go by as it passes in the river of life, or we can pluck it out when it comes into reach.
Furthermore what we love is also is up to us. Whether we chose to love our mates/partners or what they can do for us, money, power, fame, or whatever else we worship is entirely up to us.
Since the dawn of time, weâ??ve all sought to understand it, we can never fully grasp the power of it, but here are some people who have tried help us better comprehend the Supremacy of our Heart.
"You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams." Dr. Seuss
"Love me when I least deserve it, because that's when I really need it." Swedish Proverb
"Most people have a harder time letting themselves love than finding someone to love them." Bill Russell
"Since love grows within you, so beauty grows. For love is the beauty of the soul." Saint Augustine
"Love comes when manipulation stops; when you think more about the other person than about his or her reactions to you. When you dare to reveal yourself fully. When you dare to be vulnerable."
Dr. Joyce Brothers
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Till the winds of your choices bring you back,
~Teen Guru~
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I cold always talk to my cuzin. About everything. but one day she just broke down about everything. Now i dont think i can talk to her anymore what should i do (link)
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Well depending on the age of you and your cousin and what you mean by “Broke down” will depend on what can be done.
The younger the both of you are the longer it will most likely take to correct.
With what you have been given me, I believe your cousin has what is called a overload, or as you called “break down” both describe that the mind can’t take much more info at that time. It is nothing to serious, it usually happens to those who are young who just learn something monumental. All you can do is to wait till they process it, and are ready for more.
Talk about it, as your cousin, see you maybe put too much on her plate to handle. I know from experience, that if it is a overload/break down then she’ll overcome it. However do not try to confined in her until she is ready.
When you do finally start confining in her, be front with her. Say “I don’t want you be overwhelmed by this, so it starts to get too much, than tell me and we’ll stop for a time”.
Let her make the pace.
It is important to confined in someone. But sometimes we choose the wrong person to confine in. If it something serious, then you may need to talk to a more mature mind (someone who is older and had more experiences, like a parent, teacher, etc.)
Best of luck to you, and maybe you may be able to have your cousin confined in you to help her get through this.
I hope this helps you/let me know if it did.
~Teen Guru~
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thsnk you so much your advice really truely helped
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