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okay just warning you this could get kind of long, so I met this guy and for some reason immediately he just sparks my interest you know catches my eye however you wanna put it so I start getting to know him better and he's probaby like the funniest person I ever will meet in my life so Im starting to really fall fast for this kid then he asks me out at first I kind dont want to rush into but I think about it and I realize that im not willing to risk the chance of losing him by saying no. so I said yes and by doing that I did exactly what I didnt want to happen. We went out over the summer and broke up for well some really stupid reasons I couldnt trust him because he lied to me alot and would tell other people everything we did. to me that was our personal business and i didnt want everyone knowing about it so after i talkd to him and he cont'd doing it i broke it off he told me he didnt care and that he hated me and he never wanted to speak to me again then he made the next few weeks hell for me but then one night i got really upset and i was talking to one of his good friends about it and i was trying to explain how i just couldnt see how i could be so stupid to think he ever cared about me when he obviously didnt, well his friend cut me off right there. he told me that me and my ex were two of a kind, we were cut from the same block however you wanna put it, my ex had said that same thing about me when i broke up with him and he even cried but made his friend promise not to tell anyone. now that i know this happened i think i might of made a mistake i really loved that boy and i miss him everyday, i pray everynight that one day ill get him back and i know how pathetic that sounds esp. since he just got a girlfriend today they dont really know eachother too well though and i heard he still wishes me and him would someday work everything out but i dont know it seems like everythings in too big of a mess and that no one would ever be able to fix it.. i feel like an idiot for letting him slip away. he wasnt perfect, he was far from that but i loved that about him cuz he knew it and he'd always let it shine through and he could always make me laugh. i need some help though what should i do to even be on just good terms with him? or what should I do to possibly win him back or am i just as screwed as i thought.. i know this is long and probably annoying and your probably even laughing but thanks for at least reading it an please respond if you have any ideas cuz im really hurting right about now

-virginia

you should talk to him... tell him how you feel.... tell him it was a big mistake losing him and that if you cant ever be a couple again, you still want to be really good friends like you used to be.

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