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there is this girl and i have known her for about a year. last year i used to hangout with her all the time. now, in our second year of high school, she doesnt really talk to me much. she hangs out with all the preppy kids, which most of them, i dont really talk to. one of them decided to ask this girl out to homecoming, which i wanted to do. well this kid told me he asked her and now, i just cant stop thinking about her! she's always in my head! i dont know what to do next, its mindboggling! (link)
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The thing is she has no idea beyond your first name
of who you are and what you are like. This plays to your advantage. She used to know who you were a year ago. Your goal go the friendship route and learn
what makes her tick etc and let her be the guy she
vents to you and tell her she can. To do this requires some craft.
Become her friend again, hang out with people she knows and get to know them to become included. 99.95% of the time teen romance fails and she is off to the next guy who shows interest only to be stomped on again.
This is where you come in know and learn every last possible thing about her and her interests. Be her friend and show concern now in a friendship way that the other guy doesn't. Pick up on what he does and doesn't do that pisses her off. You be the flipside of that and mark my words when someone gets the heav ho out the door she may remember you or you would have at least an opening. If you never make friends with her how the hell can she like let alone date you? You have to get gonads here.
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haha thanks i like ur advice and i think it should really help me
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