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Hey it's Akuma... comming at you with a breif introduction.
I'm 17 years old and an engineering major at lawrence tech university.
I like video games and i'm really playful and silly.
Now you may ask wat's up wit the confusing name (onitenmasapiens)
well now this is intresting.
My nickname given to me in the 10th grade was akuma... after a streetfighter charactor. But akuma just so happens to mean demon, which describes my temper ..
now where does onitenmasapiens come into all of that?
well Oni and tenma both are a variation of the word demon in japanese
and sapiens just means wise
so wise demon
Gender: Female
AIM: Onitenmasapiens
Yahoo: Onitenmasapiens
Member Since: September 6, 2005
Answers: 8
Last Update: October 20, 2005
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Hey
=( I really dont like my stepmom. I dont necessarily HATE her but i strongly dislike her. My dad & her had an affair. I love my mom so much. I live with her mainly. shes like my best friend && we are really close. So My step mom really hurt my mom, me and my whole family life! She barely talks to me. Shes just not very nice. Sometimes she acts too nice like in a fake way & it drives me crazy. I like my dad but we are not all that close because of the divorce. i Hate going over to my dads because of my stepmom & just being around lies. My step brother & step sister dont even know the whole truth. What should I do? I give 5's. (link)
Wow that's deep but really i have a few questions for you.
1) How does youre dad act? Does he cater to your stepmom or is he (although it may be difficult) fair in judgment? i.e. when (if) you and your step mother get intoan argument will he
a) let her say and do what she wants EVEN if it's not even the littlest bit fair (as in not listen to your version of what happened) or
b) listen to both sides and try and come up with a fair solution to the argument or disagreement.


If the answer is a your best bet is to tell your mother that you just don't want to go there anymore because of the way your father is actin BE SPECIFIC! give an exact incident. believe me moms know how to resolve these things perfectly

If it's b then just tell your dad how uncomfortable she makes you and what she does to you or how you feel. Maybe he can shed some light on the situation so that you can see it from a different perspective


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