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I am currently in my first "serious" relationship with this guy. My previous ones were just what I call meaningless flings where there was only a physical attraction. This guy is different though. I really love him, which I never though I'd say about anyone. We talked for a while before we started dating, and realized that we had a lot in common. When we talk to each other, I am beginning to notice possibly bipolar tendencies. He can be very depressed and suicidal at times. I've dealt with depression and suicidal thoughts for a long time, so I do not want to leave him at this time, yet it makes me feel shittier than usual.... Know that some aspects of this situation have been deleted due to the context rules of Advicenators.

Any advice?

lol, were in the same boat sweetie. my bf is amanic depressent, cant get medicine because of his parents, and is now become a polological liar because of it! But the fact is that you need to learn that its not you. Your not making him sad, its just the way he is. Plus, what really keeps me here is that i know my bf needs me, just as i bet yours will need you, you will help him be happier then if he was alone, hell have his bad days, but the fact is, theyd be worst if you werent there. the only bad thing about a boyfriend like this is the hole break up thing, it might drive them to do something exstremly horrible as to suicide. so youve got to weigh it out, try and help him, keep him happy, be with him, have a great relationship, or leaeve him before things are to deep, i dont suggest the last one, especially if you have feelings for him, since he could just be the one. And if you noticed this problem with him, it would be very easy later on to suggest medication for him, hed listen to you.

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