Im not here to tell everyone my life story. Im here to give advice to people who ask for it. I will only give them the truth and what they need to hear. Im not dishonest and i dont critize people. But i would love to give you advice. =)
Yours truley,
Katina*
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sorry this is so long but... is it wrong not to love your father, now hold on don't blow a gasket i'll explain everything. ya see my dad went to jail when i was really young and and i never got to know him. and my grandperents keep wanting me to go clear across the state to visit him. and i don't wanna spend 5 days in a hot car just to see someone i dont even know for 2 hours. but i feel so ashamed, i feel so self centered, i feel so selfish. i feel like i owe it to him to go. please i want your oupion am i the scum of the earth, or am i ok
please, dont yell at me. i already feel bad enough as it it. (link)
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Its not that you dont love your father. Its just that you probly feel hurt that he really hasnt been there for you in the past. Yea you might be mad that he hasnt tried to get in touch with you but maybe he wants to see his child that he never had the chance to see grow up. He probly feels guilty too. But dont feel self-centered. Its a normal feeling. And your not a scum of the earth. You have the right to feel the way you do. And hey, maybe if you go and visit him maybe you can learn more about him. Learn a little bit more of his childhood..his past. Just follow your heart.
Katina*
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