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I'm a girl. There's this boy, we hang out. He likes me, I'm 98% sure. He was hurt during and after his last relationship for a really long time. While we hang out and cuddle and just be together we talk and he told me that he see's a future with me and it scares him. I didn't necessarily take this as a bad thing. However, the more I think about it, the more I wonder. What are all of your opinions on this?
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Also, he doesn't seem too ready to date any time soon. Then there's this guy, who I really really used to dig when I was like 15. I'm 18, now. We're friends, but I think he wants to try something more. I like this other guy, in the above paragraph, however, I don't know if I should wait for him, or see if I like this friend of mine. My gut feelings are telling me that I'm young, and should play out both fields. What are your opinions?
K Thanks.
It concerns me the way you say 'play both fields' - thats not fair on anyone, you risk breaking both thier harts and your own. We have a saying ' follow your hart - not your head'. Be true to your self and listen to what your hart says to you. Remember your harts wisper is a lot louder than your heads shout. I know which one you want, you know which one you want. One of thies gue's says to me a life time of love and happyness - the other says nothing of the sort. be gentle, become his rock and let him be yours. Don't rush it or even think about it - just let it happen. Good luck and let us know what happens.
Derfel&Dannii xx
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