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Q: I have a friend that just came here to vacation for three months from England. I've only known him for two years, and now I feel that he's taking advantage of me, my mom and my family. I truly hate how he schedules us to go places, not regarding our time or what we have to do. And now he's brought a friend, without the superintendent's permission, but leaves the burden on us in bringing the BOTH of them around Hawaii and things. Their like staying really far from where we live, and still they ask us to drive them back to our house for meals! We are not a hotel! Okay, I'm overreacting. But the main thing is, how can I conduct myself around him without blowing up, but showing that he should be reminded of his limits? Sorry for the length, but thank you very much...
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Your friend may not realize that you do not have time to guide them. The next time they call for you to come and get them, politely tell them that it is not a good time for you. Let them know that you've had a good time touring with them, but, alas, you have things that need to be done.
If your friend gets upset over this, tell them this would be a great opportunity for them to explore the islands, and to learn their way around them. They may stumble into a place you've never seen before. Then, they would get to take you on a tour. Good luck to you!
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never thought about it that way..Thank you very much!
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: South Carolina Age: 32 Member Since: August 28, 2005 Answers: 23 Last Update: January 1, 2006 Visitors: 2925
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