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Ok, so my parent's have been devorced for a long time and my dad is re-married. my mom has hit rock bottom, and now I have to tell an investigator ware I want to live. I am stuck in the middle, both parents think I wana live with them but I really havent decided. please help me! I'll rate 5's for none stupid awnsers.
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Well.... tough choice huh? From an outsiders point of view I have a few questions...You might want to get a piece of paper and write down your thoughts to all of these.
Does your dad and his wife have any kids (step brothers/sisters).
If not, are they planning to have a family? Would you want to be a part of that?
Does your mom need you or does she need professional help? I think your mom might need you but if you think she is in need of actual help, I would consider that.
Who would you rather come home after school to?
Who could you ask the most personal questions to?
Also if it an option, see if you can spend like the weekends or one week/weekend a month at the persons house you don't choose. And if you can do that, make sure the person you would pick for weekends would be willing to take you places. (sports events, school stuff, friends, etc.)
If thats not an option, then don't stress over it.
And ask the investegator for an extension of time if you can it might give you more time to think.
Just pick whoever you think is the right choice and once you do, call the one you don't choose often. It will brighten their day.
Hope I helped! Good luck!
-PinKkiSs43-
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ok, I think I know now... Thank you so much for the great advice! :D
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