Homosexualism is not a disease. It is not "rubbed off" onto another person.
I do not know if someone is born gay. There has been a theory around about parents wanting a particular sex of child, and having the opposite. Supposedly, this could cause the child to think and act as the sex of what the parent initially wanted. I do not know if there is any truth to this, or what kind of research has been done to test this theory.
Also, please consider this: Why a 40 year-old woman tell a 13 year-old she is gay, but not your mother who is her friend?
At your age, I do think you should be cautious though, even if it is your choice to sleep in the same bed as this woman. You are starting to mature, so more responsibility is needed of you on your decision making. If this person should make any sexual advantages towards you, inform your mother or another adult that you trust. Remember, sexual explotation of children and teens is a serious matter. You will be believed.
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