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Hey, me & this boy named Kyle have been best friends since 2nd grade, he's liked me since then (2nd grade) for a girlfriend & I've liked him as a boyfriend since 5th grade. We never dated because I didn't want to ruin our relationship as friends, and if we ever broke up I didn't want it to seem awkward for us! So, now I'm in 10th grade & I just moved 26 hours away from him (We both still live in the USA) Just I live in Texas and he lives in Pennsylvania. We talk on the phone & internet. I love him to death he's absolutely amazing, and he tells me the same thing back. Except, he won't wait until we graduate for me, he says "Whatever happens, happens!" I guess he's right in a way, I can't stop him from seeing other people, but I want him to sooo bad. He doesn't believe in long distance relationships, so. I don't know what to do. Is he right about the whole situation? Or, do you think I'm just over reacting about the whole thing? Thanks for your help!

well this is comming from a girl that has had a long distance relationship for over a year now. i met my bf online and didnt actually meet untill about 3 months into it. if he really liked you hed probably wait. i know men will be men and are honry but if this guy loves you like you love him, he shouldnt even have other options. if you love someone others just seem to fall short. then again i also heard from a married women that she was apart from her husband atm for 5 years for collage and such and she cheated on him and he with others but it wasnt relaly cheating to them.. it was more like using people to satisfy a certain thing but they knew they were gonna be together at the end and stop with others. so its what you make with him! if hes certain that hes gonna be with you after HS then thats something i guess, but if he doesnt even wanna wait for you at all.. idk how much hed be worth waiting for you...

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