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What's up? Well, I'm sure like each and every other advice columnist is that, we all enjoy giving advice . I like to keep things real and you'll find out how real when you ask me a question . I absolutely love helping people . Hollah at me sometimes !!! Oh, and yahoo me . Goodness sakes knows that I could do with the mail.

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ok im really sorry if this is really long and i understand if you dont want to read it but i would really appreciate if you would take the time to and give me your opinion/advice. ok i all started when my mom's sister and my dad's brother got married, in doing this they concived a child, and then they got divorced. now for the child's baptisim (he is now eight) the father (my dad's brother) was not invited to this, and he is really upset. and the reasons she dint invite him was because she had invited him to many things and he never showed and she had to lie to her son and just say that something important came up and your dad was not able to make it, instead of saying "your dad blew us off" so she always would leave messages and call him and he purposely would not get a hold of her back (he is now remarried and has 2 other boys)
so she wanted to save the dissapointment and she never bothered to invite him (plus she said it would be eaiser on her not to see him)and i can understand why my uncle would be upset, but now my parents are against each other (there defending each sides) and they are talking about a split, my dad was cusing to my mom and i never heard it so bad before, and im really upset right now and im accually crying right now. my dad was talking about that i would probally want to go with my mom cause i would not want to be with him, and then he started saying how bad of a dad he is and all this stuff. and im a christian and my dad dint know i was right there and i heard him say under his breath "christians my ass" and i got really upset, well i really REALLY do appreciate that you took the time to read this, i will rate really high, thanks again!

Talk to your mother and father about your feelings together in the same room. Get those feelings out there and don't suppress them. Tell them that they're making you really angry. Tell them that the problems your uncle and the other woman are having are there own problems to solve. This is your time to shine. Make them listen and make them see how important this is to you. But if they don't listen and they do split, you'll have to respect that but you don't have to like it. Talk to them . Trust me, it may just help you.

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(Rating: 5) thanks alot.

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