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I made out with my boyfriend last night and my older brother walked in on us (we were in my room with the door locked but my bro just has to stick a penny in the door too twist it.. if you know how those work yeah)... He came in and got really really pissed and started yelling at my bf (which made him leave), My brother had me in tears, he acted like he was my parents he was yelling at me and everything... I mean all we were doing was making out just sitting there not even laying down or anything. Im 14 and hes 17 but he was sooooooo mean and he told my parents so now im grounded for a frigin MONTH!!! I was so pissed at my brother and he said he didnt want me too turn into a slut (wth all we did was makeout) So this morning he was in the living room and he told me my bf called and my bro told him he wasnt allowed to call my house anymore... WHY IS he taking this so out of proportion.. I started crying again so i told him i hated him and that i wished he would die and burn in hell... :( That got me grounded for even longer but i didnt mean it :( Ive tried apologizing and he wont listen too me. Does anybody know how i could apologize too him and handle this whole situation all together because if not i could lose my BF.. because hes not allowed over here and my parents say i cant see him :(. (link)
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Brothers...You can't live with them, yeah that's really all. I know what you mean, my brother is CONSTANTLY telling me stuff about how all my friends will probably turn into sluts and how everyone will start to do drugs. It is so annoying but I know he only does it because he loves me and doesn't want me to turn into a slut or a druggie. I know you probably wondering why they can't just understand and why they are freaking out over just making out...but look at it from his view... He walks in on you two making out with some guy (assuming your bro and bf don't know eachother). I know it sucks like heck that they won't just let you do whatever...but just remember that your bro only got so pissed because he really does care about you and really doesn't want you to turn into a slut. There isn't an easy way to apologize because what you said probably really hurt him, he was probably thinking, "i'm such a good brother because I'm looking out for my little sis" and then you told him you hate him...so just give it some time and tell him that you didn't mean it and you understand what he is trying to do. Hope it all works out...brothers can be SUCH a pain in the ass sometimes. (oh and remember, your brother is a whole lot more important than you bf...no matter what)
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