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I made out with my boyfriend last night and my older brother walked in on us (we were in my room with the door locked but my bro just has to stick a penny in the door too twist it.. if you know how those work yeah)... He came in and got really really pissed and started yelling at my bf (which made him leave), My brother had me in tears, he acted like he was my parents he was yelling at me and everything... I mean all we were doing was making out just sitting there not even laying down or anything. Im 14 and hes 17 but he was sooooooo mean and he told my parents so now im grounded for a frigin MONTH!!! I was so pissed at my brother and he said he didnt want me too turn into a slut (wth all we did was makeout) So this morning he was in the living room and he told me my bf called and my bro told him he wasnt allowed to call my house anymore... WHY IS he taking this so out of proportion.. I started crying again so i told him i hated him and that i wished he would die and burn in hell... :( That got me grounded for even longer but i didnt mean it :( Ive tried apologizing and he wont listen too me. Does anybody know how i could apologize too him and handle this whole situation all together because if not i could lose my BF.. because hes not allowed over here and my parents say i cant see him :(.
I deffinately know what your going through. And I also see your brothers point of view. Your brother is afraid that your going to have sex with this guy. Talk to your brother and tell him that you and your boyfriend have limits. You guys wont even go past making out. Older brothers and fathers are like that. There afraid because your growing up. And dont want you to. Tell your brother he cant protect you all your life. You have to make your own mistakes and learn from them. Because after all you learn from your mistakes so you wont make them again. Tell your brother you can take care of yourself. And you would never have sex with your boyfrined. hope this helps
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