Member Since: August 23, 2005 Answers: 65 Last Update: September 7, 2005 Visitors: 4505
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My boyfriend wants to have sex. I think I love him, but I just don't feel ready yet. How can I tell him and not lose him? (link)
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Sex is a sacred thing. it should be kept between a husband and wife. That's my personal oppinion. Does this boy truely love you? or is it just mere puppy love middle school crush kinda thing? You have to learn to be able to answer this question for your self. but there is ONE, QUICK, and EASY way to find out. Just tell him the truth. Say "(his name), i think i'm in love with you, but i'm just not ready to make a big commintment like this to you right now. I'm just not comfortable with sex now. And if you truley love me, then you'd understand." And if he does love you, he'll wait. I believe sex should be saved for marriage, but if you feel otherwise, just make sure that you're protected (by using birth control) and he's also protected (by using a condom) Best of luck to ya!
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thank you. Good job adding the use birth control advice. :)
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