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don't worry, i won't bite. you can come to me with anything. i live in alaska and i graduate c/o 2008. even though i'm really young, that doesn't mean i don't know what i'm talking about. i've been through a lot of stuff and i've been there for all my friends and family during their time of need. i love helping people. i actually plan to major in psychology when i go to college. so yes, don't worry. i'll be here to help.
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um, i am a virgin and all. and thats kinda the problem. most of my freinds arent virgins, and i get made fun of. even my father had sex when he was like 12. and its driving me practilly INSANE! im sixteen years old, and i "enjoy" myself almost daily. i am speaking the embarassing truth. one of the minor reasong why i bought a computer was so i could look up porn. and i tell myself all the time ill stop "enjoying" myself once i actually have sex. and thats put me at ease for awhile. i mean, other that that i ok, besides sucking my thumb.one time, a prostistute was asking if i wanted a good time, and as sad as it may sound, i was saeiously considering it. and thats when i knew i had issues. so the actual question would be: do i have problems? is this humane? shold i go out and see a shrink? please, this took alot of courage to admit this, so, please,dont judge me. (link)
first thing you need to understand is --
SEX iS NOT EVERYTHiNG.

i just watched the movie, "40 YEAR OLD ViRGiN."
that guy was 40 YEARS OLD & he was still a virgin. & you know what, he turned out happy. it may seem like everyone is having sex, but really -- no one is. the people who brag about having sex really aren't. and if they are -- who cares ? what gives them the right to brag. it just makes them look like jackasses anyways. i have a lot of 18 year old friends that haven't had sex yet. they just choose not too. i mean, why are you trying to rush sex anyways ? don't you want your first time to be unforgettable. why lose it to a prostitute ? wouldn't you rather want to lose it to someone that means a lot to you. someone that you love. and who cares if you have to please yourself. it feels good doesn't it ? and i heard that the more porn guys watch, when they get to do the actual thing -- they're amazing. so hey, don't worry about it. one day you'll lose it -- and you'll be happy.

okay bye, have a nice day :)


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thanx you for your feedback. it helped a lot. thanx a million! :)




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