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Hey, I’m usually the one giving advice. I don’t need advice. I just have a question and I want to know your opinion. This question is for deep thinkers. Long answers are encouraged as well as comical ones.
I’ve seen quite a lot of “love” questions, asked by adolescences. What would you call "true love"? Many people have been saying “I have a boyfriend and I REALY love him” and “she said that he loves me” or things like that. I’ve seen these questions being asked by 13 year olds! Teens DO have deep affections for people, but I really don’t think that they are capable of TRUE love. How can there be love if teen relationships only last 2 months or even 2 years! 2 years is quite long for a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship, but shouldn’t love last a LIFETIME? I agree that teens think that they are in love (I’ve been there) but I wouldn’t call that love. I would call it more like, “deep affection”. After all, if love between teens is really “love” then they shouldn’t break up, right? I think that teens are too young and “unexposed” to have TRUE LOVE. Even adults. They mistakenly call their relationships “love”. If it was actually love, then shouldn’t there be less or no divorces?
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ok i hear what your saying. I think its like this..
As far as teens, the guys say "i love you" to the girl because it sounds romantic and if he says it enough he thinks he'll get laid. The girl says it because its more romantic and secretly she wants to get laid too. What they are actually experiencing is attraction and raging hormones. My solution to this is to let teenagers just have a huge orgy and let everyone get screwed(safely of course). It is not true love they want. Its sex. I conclude that teens are just horney and only feel an attraction towards the other.
I believe "love" nowadays is a mutual agreement. The girl agrees to give the guy sex and the guy agrees to lose half his stuff....
Love SHOULD last a lifetime...and so should sex with a hot girl but it doesnt.
You dont see true love anymore. Not like it used to be. 2 weeks isnt enough to say your in love. Love is the brutalist of all emotions because until you experience it "truely" you only have disillusions of what you think it is.
As for the divorces, is it true that you have to be limited to one love. Also most ppl now adays just marry for sex and money, but mostly money.
I tried for a comical thing and it turned out serious. all well.
now mmy brain hurts from thinking because i was doing summer reading all day and now this.
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Hey, this was pretty funny! I do, also believe that teens act out of lust. Love does seem to be a mutal thing. You're right. Love is brutal. Sorry to make your brain hurt!
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