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Hey, I’m usually the one giving advice. I don’t need advice. I just have a question and I want to know your opinion. This question is for deep thinkers. Long answers are encouraged as well as comical ones.
I’ve seen quite a lot of “love” questions, asked by adolescences. What would you call "true love"? Many people have been saying “I have a boyfriend and I REALY love him” and “she said that he loves me” or things like that. I’ve seen these questions being asked by 13 year olds! Teens DO have deep affections for people, but I really don’t think that they are capable of TRUE love. How can there be love if teen relationships only last 2 months or even 2 years! 2 years is quite long for a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship, but shouldn’t love last a LIFETIME? I agree that teens think that they are in love (I’ve been there) but I wouldn’t call that love. I would call it more like, “deep affection”. After all, if love between teens is really “love” then they shouldn’t break up, right? I think that teens are too young and “unexposed” to have TRUE LOVE. Even adults. They mistakenly call their relationships “love”. If it was actually love, then shouldn’t there be less or no divorces?
I think everyone is capable of love if teens are and adults are kids can be too and not every ones relationship ends in divorce or break-up i know people who have been dating since 8th grade and got married. i believe true love can happen to anyone any age any time.
(Rating: 5) Short and sweet! Yeah, not everyone's relationships end in divorce. But saying that you're in love with someone at the age of 13, does seem to be premature. It's very much possible that they early relationships could end in marriage later in life, but at 13, or even 18, feeling are most likely to change.