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hey this is Jackie 13 years old
there is this boy Ryan, who is my neightbor and I've know him all his life.. we've been friends since before i could talk! We've ALWAYS been best friends!! we even went out when we were 10 years old.. we tell eachother everything and we always help fix ANY problems..
well that's how things used to be. in the past few weeks he's called me a SLUT for going out with a guy i just met.. and he actually meant it.. he wasn;t kidding, usually he asks me about stuff and NEVER judges me, but this time he did! and he likes my twin sis now, which i'm perffectall y ok with because i no that we're jsut friends but she doesn't like him so.. he's been upset sometimes when she gets a new boyfriend and he used to talk to me about it but in the last few weekes he's been telling me nothing's wrong when i KNOW theres something wrong comon i m his BFF i can tell.. and he's been keeping his distance.
why would he act this way is there anything i can do to fix it? PLEASE HELP I RATE WELL!!! (link)
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ok, well here's what i figure. he really, really liked you right, so you go and break his heart and everything so then he feels as if he can't trust you any more , so then he starts liking your sister because you guys are twins and he may figure you two are like the same people, but she doesnt like him. so now HE'S confused and doesnt know who to turn to anymore, because i guess he feels betrayed by you in a way.
i dont really know if there's anyway for you to fix it because you cant change a person's mind set, the only thing you can do is guide them. so you need to go talk to ryan about how you feel and how you think he feels. he may try to leave and go away but stop him and tell him that you thought you were his best friend and you can tell when somethings wrong. also tell him that the way he's acting is hurting you inside and etc. i think you can take it from there. :) hope that i helped you!
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OMG u r SOOO good at giving advice.. i'm gonna try it thanks a bunch!!
JAckie
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