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Q: ok well im 14 and i have been a cutter since i was 12. im also anorexic. i have been since i was like 10. i also have trouble eating infront of people, when i have to eat. i just get nervous and very self concious when i eat around other people. even my parents. im 4'10" and i currently weigh 94 lb. i want to get over my cutting and eating disorder SO BAD! i have tryed forever but just run back to them. i think about suicide a lot, espically after this year. this year i lost a lot of friends. 2 died in a car accident on the same day and 4 killed themselves. it has affected me badly.
now i am addicted to cutting. i cant feel the pain anymore. no matter how much or how deep i cut. ive tryed the rubber band thing but it doesnt work. if you have any ideas on how to stop then please answer. i rate high.
Do your parents know your cutting yourself and that your anorexic? If they dont, then you really need to talk to them because keeping everything inside doesn't help. Cutting yourself and being anorexic can end your life. You may think that cutting yourself is making you feel better and its not hurting anyone, but its hurting your love ones. I know that losing your friends is very hard, but you can't hurt yourself to make you feel better. They can't come back, but remember that they are looking down on you. Your parents can help you by talking to you or having you see someone professional. Talk to someone and write it out..dont keep things inside. Suicide dont help solve any problems. Dont hurt your parents by leaving this world because they will feel the same as you did when your friends left. Hope this helps!! Sorry its so long..Even though I dont know you I dont want you to make a mistake and take your own life away.

-Manda

thank you. it helped a lot

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Hey everyone! So I've been away from this website for a few years and I've recently stumbled upon it again. I feel that I'm more experienced to give mo and better advice. I've grown and developed so much these past few years that I have a completely different mentality from when I first found this site. 

Enough about that, well it's nice to meet you all and my name is Amanda! I hope to really help by giving the best advice I can. I'll always be free and open to help anyone out so don't hesitate :)

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