Hey guys, whats up? Just wanted to let you know I am a deep southern girl who is totally in love with basketball aand Dawson's Creek.(I am absolutely in love with Joshua Johnson)
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Tim Mcgraw
Kenny Chesney
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2 and a 1/2 men
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Pirates of the Carribean
Sweet home alabama
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Gender: Female
Location: Alabama, U.S.of A
Occupation: school
Age: 13
Member Since: August 4, 2005
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My mom and I have always been close but I'm fourteen now and we're still close but we get into fights a lot and it really bothers me. She's a preschool teacher so she gets summers off with me so we have a lot of time together. It's just, I hate fighting with her because, in her eyes, I'm always wrong. I mean, she starts to assume things and then when I tell her that that isn't true she get's even madder and saying "Well you said it once" or "Just drop it". It really really makes me mad. To everyone around me, my life is perfect. I get told I'm pretty and have the perfect body all the time, my family is "perfect", I'm not too popular, I have great friends...but no one sees behind the scenes. In reality, I'm really self-conscience and sad. When I'm around people, I'm the happy girl everyone thinks I am, but in my mind I'm sad. The fights take a toll on me. The way my friends treat me take a toll on me. I just don't know what to do. I really am happy on most aspects of my life, but I don't see why my mom has to fight with me. I don't think I deserve it. She doesn't know how it affects me and I'm not going to tell her 'cause then she'll get mad and say I'm selfish and think I'm always right, which I know I'm not. She's really cool a lot of the time but now we fight more and more and it's really starting to bother me. What can I do to help myself be happy and not let the fights get to me so much? What can I do when we fight? I want to be happy but these fights hurt.
Please help. Usually I give good advice to other people, but I don't know what to do.
-K- (link)
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OMg its like your living my life. I felt the exact same way. My mom is a preschool teacher too and like we used to have the same fights. So i was so sick of it and i was always in trouble but I sat down and talked to my mom with my dad in the room and my mom and i talked some things out but she got mad and that time my dad saw her and he agreed it wasnt just me so he talked to her and she came and apolgized to me and told me some of the things that had been bothring her butshe said she shouldnt have taken them out on me and blah blah blah it was really sappy but we dont fight nearly as much. Plus it wasnt just her, i had to realize it was me too. but ur mom can be a really good friend if you like her to be.So talk with your parents and fast because i know how annoying it can be!!o well hope it helped and good luck
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We are really close and I love her and I know I'm not always right but she just gets so mad at me and I don't understand why.
You give really really good advice. Thanks! :)
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