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welcome to my advice page...my name is alexa and i go to st.joe high school. my friend told me to start this since she says i give out pretty good advice....well, i like helping people, and i've been through some stuff so if you have a question, i'll probably be able to answer it.
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ok this is more of a question for the guys...but mabe the girls can answer it too

why do guys lie?!?!

i have a guy friend and hes awesome! but he ALWAYS tell me he loves me and i KNO hes lieing...he tells every girl he loves her...and he goes out with every girl...and cheats on every girl

i kno ALL guys dont do this...but i just wanna know why some do (link)
i'm not a guy but i think i can help answer your question. most guys know how emotional and sensitive most girls are. that's normal, its what makes being a girl great. some guys however, take advantage of that fact to benefit for his own needs. if he knows you like him and he has you on a string, he could tell you the sky was green and you'd probably follow him. that's basically where the phrase "love is blinding" comes from. another reason is that guys know the wrath of a woman is mighty, and they might just lie to make you feel better. he's thinking, "do you really want me to tell you those pants make you look fat?" in the case of your guy friend, it seems as if he's telling you he loves you to win you over; to "blind you" so that if he does something wrong, you'll be too busy caring about him to notice. i suggest you try to screen him out with "mental shades" until you feel he's ready to tell the truth. good luck!


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wow thanks so much! u helped a lot!




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