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about 3or4 days ago i started dating one of my best guy friends. we sort of had some sort of crush/flirt thing going on for a while. but starting an actual relationship with him never crossed my mind. until my cousin (who i recently found out was friends with him) started talking to him about "asking me out" and when he was going to and all that jazz. so when we hung out again. he asked me. it hasnt hit me until now that.. i dont want a relationship. but hurting him would be the last thing on my mind. hes been hurt before.. and is pretty sensative. so i dont know what to do. i know i should give it a chance.. but i dont want to wait to long. and start lying to myself about when im feeling. i dont know what im feeling.
anyone andive on what i could do?

Well, you have good intentions of not wanting to hurt him? However, it's better to tell him that you dont really like him than going out with him just because you dont want to hurt his feelings.
You could wait a little while and see if you really do have feeling for him. Sorry if that wasn't much help. Good luck though!


-TORi

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(Rating: 4) thanks. but its not that i went out with him just because i didnt want to hurt him. i do like him. im just not ready for a relationship with him because we have been friends for so long.
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