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ok, well i really have liked this guy for 2 years, i think i love him. he knew, he hated me for it. lots of horrible stuff happened. now i'm going to a different school next year & i'm almost over him, which is good. i met a guy at this school who i really like [through the drama camp], & i really want him to know how i feel about him & how i can't stop thinking about him, but i don't want to tell him i like him, because he barely knows me. i don't want any of my friends to do it for me because i don't want to cause any tention between us. all the guys i've ever had feelings for have hated me in return & i don't want this to happen again. someone please give me some advice. i'll rate you for it if you want.

If you really feel so strongly about this boy then I think you need to tell him. If he's going to be upset with you over feelings that you cannot help - he was never worth those feelings in the first place. Maybe you could write him a letter to tell him, or on Instant Messenger tell him. But don't get your friends to do it, and make sure you're comfortable when you do it. Just because some guys were upset with you over your feelings does not mean that every guy will be. Life is all about chances, and in this situation it could turn out very, very good if you just take a chance. Good luck!

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(Rating: 5) wow. thank you. that was really a help. =]
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