Hey, well im not really gonna use this to talk about me because this advice thing is only for advice and not to get to know me. The only thing you should know is my name is Lindsey. I want to be a phycologist when i get older and this is a great way for me to start practicing. I use Christianity in all the ways possible when i answer my questions. If you not a christian please become one because all your issues will be alot better because you have God on your side. But yeah.. I love helping people and giving advice and i have been through just about everything thats on here, how weird.. drama goes a long ways. And a bunch of yall i bet you think that nobody knows how you feel. Been there done that. But im here to help so if you feel the need to ask me a question then do so cause this is what im here for. I have a bible verse that i think yall should read and think about. MUCHO LOVE
--> "The godly give good advice to their friends, the wicked lead them astray."
Member Since: August 10, 2005
Answers: 28
Last Update: September 17, 2005
Visitors: 3014
|
| |
i sure hope you can help me. heres my story... ok me and this boy named zach used to go out like a yr. ago! and when we went out it didnt last long. now me and him are starting to talk again and we are getting along great. we are talking about getting to know each other more and then thinking about getting back together.
some how me and him started talking about sex! he wants to have sex with me cause he likes me alot! and i like him so i cant turn him down! im scared though.its not cause im still a virgin its because im afraid ill get pregnant! i know alot of teens loose there virginity and most of them dont get pregnant the first time. but im afraid beacuse if i get pregnant then my parents will kill me. i dont want to make another mistake because i ahppen to make alot of those! so can u please help me choose what to do? and what condom is the best? and if i do have sex with him with a condom what the percent chance i can get pregnant! thanx so much i hope u can help me! i rate high
IM me on xoxokaylaoxox91 always kayla (link)
| |
okay well ive been in this situation before and now ive grown up and realized that guys dont care about your feelings no matter how much they say they do. and my advice comes from God and im telling you that he doesnt want you to just give yourself up to anybody. I used to scared of sex to, but now i know why.. its because its not right. And just say you did get pregnent, you know that boy aint gonna be with you forever and you'll get stuck with a child. Or say you dont get pregnent but you have sex and he leaves you, wont you feel dumb? Because i feel dumb because i came so close to doin it so many times and i feel like waisted something good on a boy whos defeitnly not worth it. Well just think about it and im praying for you!
|
|
Rating: 4
| |
thanx u rly helped! if i could talk to mii mom she would say the same thing cause she believes in god strongely! thanx so much and that made mii decistion turn around! i hope u can help me in sum other questiions i have! thanx one more tyme! always kayla
|
|