Hey, well im not really gonna use this to talk about me because this advice thing is only for advice and not to get to know me. The only thing you should know is my name is Lindsey. I want to be a phycologist when i get older and this is a great way for me to start practicing. I use Christianity in all the ways possible when i answer my questions. If you not a christian please become one because all your issues will be alot better because you have God on your side. But yeah.. I love helping people and giving advice and i have been through just about everything thats on here, how weird.. drama goes a long ways. And a bunch of yall i bet you think that nobody knows how you feel. Been there done that. But im here to help so if you feel the need to ask me a question then do so cause this is what im here for. I have a bible verse that i think yall should read and think about. MUCHO LOVE
--> "The godly give good advice to their friends, the wicked lead them astray."
Member Since: August 10, 2005
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Last Update: September 17, 2005
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Okay, awhile back I liked this guy "Caleb" for almost a year. He had (and still has) a girlfriend, and "Caleb" turned me down when I told him how I felt. Now his girlfriend has moved to Canada, and he's been talking to me on AIM saying "yo" before I even say "hi" first. My mom knows what happened and how badly it hurt me when he hurt my feelings, but now him and I want to be friends. My mom told me NEVER to talk to him again on AIM because of what happened. By the way, he's three years older then me and so is his girlfriend. Now we just want to be FRIENDS, and I don't want to block him or anything, so I turn my away message on when he comes online. I'm so confused, because I don't know if his girlfriend is ever going to break up with him, and if she does, he'll be talking to me a lot about how sad he is. Any advice on how to deal with this? (link)
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Okay, read between the lines here. Obviously its not a God thing. And God is your creater and he wants whats best for you. And if your mom doesnt think its right, quiet honestly this may not make since now.. but later on it will. Your mom knows whats best because shes either been through it or knows somebody who has been through it. And if you dont listen to your mom listen to me. If any guy wants to put you second to some other chic, is it honestly worth it? NO!!! I hope thats what your answer was. But you need to set your standards HIGHH as crap because when you do that you will find the right guy for you, and maybe not the right guy for you to marry but the right guy for you to just simply date. and trust me i spent three years of my life trying to get this guy back.. i mean we would break up and always get back together but now i look at it and see, it was a waiste of my life.. because now im seeing all these great guys. And thats because I have my faith in God to show me the right direction and you may not agree with me there but trust me, its alot better. With God on your side , God will take care of them boys. So im gonna pray for you and i hope that you'll make the right choice!!
HEY i had to edit my answer cuz i wasnt sure how else to reply cuz i just started this junk or watever but im Baptist but as long as your a Christian is great. If you want nemore help give me your AIM/AOL screen name okay
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Whoa, thank you so much! I can tell you took a good amount of time typing your best advice for me, and I also give my faith to God and pray I'll find the right guy soon. I don't know what religion you are, but I am Christian and I'm glad you included God in your answer. Again, thanks so much!
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