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Hey my names Megan I'm 17 years old I'm a senior in high school. I love hanging out with my friends and of course shopping (what girl doesn't) and I drive a 98 Jetta. I'm about 5'2" with brown eyes and long brown hair. I think I have an awesome personality and i get along with pretty much everyone. I might come off as a bitch but in reality im just honest. I don't feel the need in lying to people to make them feel better. If your going to ask me a question the expect to get an honest opinion. I think its foolish of most of you to just kiss ass to people and tell them what they want to hear.
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Well Lately people have been spreading rumours about me that I am easy and a slut and stuff. And then one of my really good friends called me easy and a slut and it really hurt meh! And I really hate rumours like this! it hurts meh really badly. And also lately my parents have been yelling at me about stupid phone bills! And my dad pushed my sister about it and it really scared meh! I used to be abused when I was little but my family got help and its ok now but when he pushed her it just brought back all the bad memorys! Also for about two yeaars up until around march I was suicidal but then I got the cops called on meh and they came to my house and it was really scary so I stopped cause I didnt want that to happen again! Also I was anerexic and balimic on and off for about 2 years also. Lately alot of things have been happening that have made me want to result back to cutting but I don`t want to and I find myself going into the bathroom alot staring at blades just thinking about it and wanting to but then I come in my room and stay here. Also Sense the rumours I have been feeling useless and like I`ll never find a guy that will treat meh good and Ive just felt like I wont ever be special to anyone and its been getting me really depressed. Wanting to work out heavely to make myself look prettyer. I dont know what to do! I Want to know ways to look prettyer and maybe get guys to like meh and I need advice on my cutting and all the other stuff I wrote about! please help
14/f
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love maddie

Maddie, To me it sounds like you need to sit down and just talk to someone like a therapist just to vent. Rumors are rumors in a couple weeks they'll die down so don't sweat it! Thats part of high school and about your friend calling you easy and a slut maybe she was just mad at you try talking to her about it I'm sure she regrets saying it. And when it comes to guys your 14 there are plenty og guys out there. And i garentuee theres a hot boy out there that wants you! You should try working out when i was under alot of stress working out made me forget everything and it seriously helped! Don't resort to cutting yourself its not healthy and in the long runit wont make you happy plus do you really want to deal with the scars? Its not worth it at all. And with your dad sometimes people just get really frusterated and dont know how to control there anger. If it scared you bad enough try talking to your mom about it. I'm sure he probably feels horrible about it.

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(Rating: 5) Thankyou very much for taking your time to help meh
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