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Q: Hey. I have a big problem. I had a crush on this guy who is like 2 years older then me {i'm 14, so he is 16}, just a tiny one. But, my older sister who is 20 LIKES him. But, it sucks because all the guys I like I can't because of friends, and now it's come down to my sisters. I liked a guy that was my other sisters age but then she started likin him so i had to back off, since he was so much older... but there not dating ne ways. But, my 20 year old sister is going out on a date with him... What if they become boyfriend and girlfriend.... maybe i just think that he's cute... But i dunno... If they do become bf and gf, it would be weird if i like, see them kissing or something.. well maybe it wont. I'm really confused...

First thing you should do is have a chat wit your sis. Second is if you think you only might have an attraction then wait it out a couple of days. See if you think about him a lot, or if you jus can't get him outta your head. If that happens then you prolly like him.

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Yea, when i told my sister i had a crush on him, before i knew she did, she was like ohh so do i, and i was like... oh and she's like, it's not like we are going to be bf and gf... but meanwhile there going on a date, whenever i see him or when someone mentions him i think about him....but, not all the time...thanks though

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