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..There's this guy I really like. I'm 14 years old and he's 17. We used to just be " buddies " and he used to talk to me about the girls that he liked but I knew that he would never in a million years talk about me that way. Boy, was I wrong.
..I've liked him for about two years now, and he's finally noticed me now since I " grew up " if you know what I mean. We've been talking about hooking up for a while now, but the problem is is that he's my brother's friend and if my brother found out that I was hooking up with his friend he would kill me and his friend. So... we really don't know what to do. At first we decided to just be friends with benefits lol :) but that didn't work...We just keep on talking about how it would be soooooo great if we were actually bf and gf. I really don't know what to do about this because I don't want to mess up my brother's friendship with the guy and I don't want to lose someone that I like very much. Please help in any way that ya'll can. Thanks.
- Melisa
Tell your brother that you are growing up and that he's going to have to accept the fact that he can't beat every guy away with a stick...maybe a fist... that walks by you one day and says, gosh that girl is hot I want to get with her. If need be, tell him to get a life and that to get used to it. You deserve to be with this guy now that you've waited that long and now he wants you. You deserve to have him and tell your brother this. This is your life not his. Are you really...really...going to let your brother dictate to you when it comes to who you go out with or who you won't go out with. Come on . Get real and tell him to get real too.
(Rating: 5) thank you so much. i love this advice.