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Hi guys.
Sorry if this is really long...i rate high.
Alrighty.
Well i have a boyfriend and i love him to death. We've been together for over 3 months and ever since ive knwn him he never EVER talks about his problems.
If i know somehtings wrong he'll say things like.."Its not important" or "Its nothing" when i can seeeee that its bothering him a lot. I want him to know that he doesnt need to act all tough around me. And i need him to know that he can talk to me about anything. I just dont know what to say to him.
Ive tried the usual..."you know im always here for you" and all that and he says he knows but it doesnt change anything.
Do you guys have anything i could say or do that would get him to know that im always there...and ready to listen?
Any advice is great advice!!
Thanks...
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Allright, it seems as if you're boyfriend is a typical man. Go figure. If he does tell you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice. OR, sometimes it could be that he's thinking WAY too much. One small thing you might have done, even if yoy didn't notice it can make him think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.
Don't worry, he'll probably come around soon. He might be trying to protect you from something, or he might be very embarassed. Either way, he'll probably end up loosening up and tellin you what's bothering him. I wouldn't read too far into it if I were you.
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