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Theres this guy that i've been talking to online for about a year. We eventually exchanged cell phone numbers and have talked on the phone. He is really nice and I find myself feeling in love with him. I know people probably think internet love is a bust but that's how I feel when I talk to him. He isn't one of the guys that wants to have cyber sex either, just to talk. He's always there when I need him and he's very sweet and he is always looking out for my best interests as well. I want to meet him but I don't know if I should. He lives about an hour away from me and he was planning on taking a train to visit me. I know there are some freaks out there, but I don't think he comes off as one of them and I also know to be careful and if I were to meet him I would bring a friend, of course. I don't know what to do, the train station is public but the town is small so not a whole bunch of people would be there. Please give me advice.

i know what you're talking about. when you say that you have met someone on the internet and you really like him. but you should NOT meet him. that is a BIG no-no. i swear to God. i know someone who has been raped by a guy. she wasnt close to me but i always tell my friends not to even think about going out. i mean, its their choice if they do but i mean, come on. if you meet him in person, you might not think of him the same. but if you dont and you keep your relationship the same, things will stay good. DO NOT tell him where you live tho. but that is also your choice as well. you have no idea. if you havent, read the book Katie.com. its about the same thing. hope i help

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