Um hi. I'm just an average girl.. i draw a lot, i play piano, i play soccer, i get A's in school... etc. I know a lot about guys (due to a certain friend... she always has crisis to deal with.), and general life questions. Hope to hear from you :D
Website: Knotty Panda
E-mail: LDStarz@adelphia.net
Gender: Female
Location: US
Occupation: Student
Age: 14
AIM: KnottyPanda
Member Since: December 5, 2004
Answers: 34
Last Update: August 14, 2005
Visitors: 2632
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13/f he is 14/m
Theres this guy that i've been talking to online for about a year. We eventually exchanged cell phone numbers and have talked on the phone. He is really nice and I find myself feeling in love with him. I know people probably think internet love is a bust but that's how I feel when I talk to him. He isn't one of the guys that wants to have cyber sex either, just to talk. He's always there when I need him and he's very sweet and he is always looking out for my best interests as well. I want to meet him but I don't know if I should. He lives about an hour away from me and he was planning on taking a train to visit me. I know there are some freaks out there, but I don't think he comes off as one of them and I also know to be careful and if I were to meet him I would bring a friend, of course. I don't know what to do, the train station is public but the town is small so not a whole bunch of people would be there. Please give me advice. (link)
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Did you tell him where you live? perhaps you could set up a place to meet that's busier and perhaps the next town over from where you live. A busy cafe or something. Bring a friend and don't rush into things. If at all he asks you to go someplace private, politely tell him you feel uncomfortable doing so and that you'd rather enjoy yourself out in town. Depart from wherever it is you met him, and make sure he goes back to the train station or wherever. Make sure he doesn't follow you. After a few more times of this, it may be safe to introduce him to your family. Make sure your parents meet him, as ludicris as it sounds. They really do know what's best. Make sure you are absolutely confident that he's not a sketchy character, too. Don't do anything you're uncertain of.
Be careful,
best wishes,
Panda
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