Um hi. I'm just an average girl.. i draw a lot, i play piano, i play soccer, i get A's in school... etc. I know a lot about guys (due to a certain friend... she always has crisis to deal with.), and general life questions. Hope to hear from you :D
Website: Knotty Panda
E-mail: LDStarz@adelphia.net
Gender: Female
Location: US
Occupation: Student
Age: 14
AIM: KnottyPanda
Member Since: December 5, 2004
Answers: 34
Last Update: August 14, 2005
Visitors: 2637
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O.K. My boyfriend cheated on me like... 3 weeks ago. I forgave him, as long as he never did it again. It was pretty hard trusting him again after that, but I did. After I had THOUGHT I had gained nothing but love and respect for him again... he CHEATED ON ME AGAIN with my sister! I know it's pretty weird but I don't trust EITHER one of them. How can get over the fact that my OWN sister could do that to me? I miss my boyfriend but I have been hurt enough and don't NEED him in my life. I love my sister but what she did was wrong and I have still not forgiven her.
I can't believe this could ACTUALLY happen to me! I'm so depressed all the time and I have lost hope in ever finding the right guy again! I really thought he was the one for me. He was so right for me, so perfect and then, BOOM! He's sleeping with my sister! I don't know what to do! I'm so confused. I'm so depressed that I'm throwing up and crying non-stop. It's really sad for me. My sister keeps telling me she's sorry but I still have not forgiven her. I haven't even talked to her! Please help! This is really devastating for me and I need someone to tell me what to do!
I rate high!
Katie Marie Sanchez- age 17 (link)
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oh that's horrible. You absolutely have a right to be upest or even angry. Your sister is perfectly aware of what she's done and should understand why you don't forgive her. If she were sorry, she wouldn't have done it, unless some insane outside force intervened. The only thing you cna do is move on. You're going to college soon? you'll meet tons of new people and if he cheated on you, then he doesn't deserve you. You're better than that. Hold your head high, and over time you will forgive in forget. Perhaps not for a long time, but remember that once you realize that there are more men out there for the picking and that you are a perfectly capable and self-reliant, strong individual, you will pull yourself through.
Hang tough,
Panda
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