Um hi. I'm just an average girl.. i draw a lot, i play piano, i play soccer, i get A's in school... etc. I know a lot about guys (due to a certain friend... she always has crisis to deal with.), and general life questions. Hope to hear from you :D
Website: Knotty Panda
E-mail: LDStarz@adelphia.net
Gender: Female
Location: US
Occupation: Student
Age: 14
AIM: KnottyPanda
Member Since: December 5, 2004
Answers: 34
Last Update: August 14, 2005
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hey...well i have a friend, well i should say bestfriend because i've known her since kindergarden and now we're going to be in 10th grade...we're totally drifing apart she seems to be getting newer friends to replace me and i dont know, i kinda miss her but sometimes she acts like shes better than me, it may be just me but thats how i feel so i think that shes just trying to make me jealous with all her new friends and she cant like, hang out with me anymore. we're totally different and we hang out with completly different groups so, its kinda hard since she doesnt really know my friends and i dont really know hers. i havent talked to her in forever and everytime we do like on the phone for example, its like really quiet and theres nothin much to talk about...what should i do? should i just move on and forget that we were ever friends?...it'll be really weird and hard because we still go to the same school and our parents and friends will be all confused why we dont really talk anymore...thanx and sry this was long...i rate... (link)
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*whistle* for a second there i thought you were my friend in disguise until you mentioneed the bit about the parents bdeing friends.
I think you need to ask yourself if you really do want to be friends with her. She seems like if she's trying to make you jealous that's not very friendly. It could just be you're both growing up and naturally drifting apart, developing different interests and preferences in friends. It's not necisarily a bad thing. Talk to her about it. If she agrees, perhaps you cuold come up with a regular dat e for you guys to go out to lunch or something, once or twice a week. If you think it's the best that you're no longer friends, don't leave on hard feelings. It's best to leave a friendship on good terms and still be friendly. Say hi in the hallways, keep in touch. Naturally you lose friendships, it cannot be prevented. Most people don't keep any of their highschool friends once they're off to college. That's only 3 years away. Time really does fly. If they do keep friends, it's only a few.
Don't worry, things will work out =)
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