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well there's this guy i like..and we've dated before and we always seem to fight now but we're the best of friends..well today we got in a big fight..and i told him i didn't want to hang out with him again this summer (we don't live in the same town) and he's like w/e and he got all mad at me..later i told him i was sorry and i still want to hang out with him and he's like yeah right and than i got an e-mail from him and it was this chain that he sent to me and it said that like he will always be there for me and everything and how i'm a great friend..but later he sent me a message when i wasn't there and it said i hate you (one time i was talking about someone hating me and he said "who could hate you"). so it kills me to know that he hates me. and he pretty much said that he could never hate me. i have no idea what happened..cause we always kid about that stuff be he didn't say he was kidding or anything..i'm soo worried about our friendship now..and i didn't even do anything..i love this kid right to death and i would do anything for him..i never knew how much the words "i hate you" could feel until you hear it from the one person you would do anything in this world for..even give up your life for them to keep living. it hurt me so bad..and i just want to tell him but i don't know if i can even express to him how much it hurt me. please help me..i just want to know what to say to him..i know it's really what i feel i should say but i need some help. i rate high! please help me! i'm stuck in the gutter on this one. =/ (link)
You should say that it realy hurt you about him saying he hates you.Ask him if he realy hates you or not.Somtimes people say they hate someone cause there just mad at that person.He is the one who said how can anyone hate you.But it realy dose hurt to have someone say they hate you.But if he realy dose hate you you should just move on with your life cause if he where realy your friend he wouldnt say that.And he should be the one saying sorry for what he said.Even though you realy love this person and he says he hates you and realy means it then you should just forget about him.But he might have been kidding.

*Good luck*


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