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Hi my name is Alex. Im 17 and going to be a Senior in high school. I am extremely outgoing and spirited. i love to laugh, smile, and have a great time. i am a huge sports fanatic. my friends tell me a lot cuz im a great listener as well as an advice giver, especially on love, family, and friends. hope my advice can affect you in some way :)

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well there's this guy i like..and we've dated before and we always seem to fight now but we're the best of friends..well today we got in a big fight..and i told him i didn't want to hang out with him again this summer (we don't live in the same town) and he's like w/e and he got all mad at me..later i told him i was sorry and i still want to hang out with him and he's like yeah right and than i got an e-mail from him and it was this chain that he sent to me and it said that like he will always be there for me and everything and how i'm a great friend..but later he sent me a message when i wasn't there and it said i hate you (one time i was talking about someone hating me and he said "who could hate you"). so it kills me to know that he hates me. and he pretty much said that he could never hate me. i have no idea what happened..cause we always kid about that stuff be he didn't say he was kidding or anything..i'm soo worried about our friendship now..and i didn't even do anything..i love this kid right to death and i would do anything for him..i never knew how much the words "i hate you" could feel until you hear it from the one person you would do anything in this world for..even give up your life for them to keep living. it hurt me so bad..and i just want to tell him but i don't know if i can even express to him how much it hurt me. please help me..i just want to know what to say to him..i know it's really what i feel i should say but i need some help. i rate high! please help me! i'm stuck in the gutter on this one. =/

wow i know how you feel... been there and done that. well there are 2 things that you could do :

1) you could call him and start working it out . tell him that you overreacted and girls tend to do that. tell him that your friendship means the world to him. stuff like that. believe me it works. see where it goes from there. if hes the best friend you say he is then he will understand.

2) let it blow over. some guys get mad right away and the next day or so they dont care. some are even faster than that. only you kno if he is like this .

hopefully this helped. believe me the "i hate you" is just a defensive mechanism. hes hurt that you said you didnt wanna hang out with him. so he said that.

i kno this will work out in the end :)

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(Rating: 5) thank you sooo much..you made me feel better about the whole "i hate you" thing..i really needed that. thanks
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