My name is Andi Im 18 and I'll be going to Sam Houston in the fall....get excited!! I love giving advice and I've been known be pretty good at it I can't tell you everything but I'll tell you what I think and hopefully that will help
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Age: 18
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well there's this guy i like..and we've dated before and we always seem to fight now but we're the best of friends..well today we got in a big fight..and i told him i didn't want to hang out with him again this summer (we don't live in the same town) and he's like w/e and he got all mad at me..later i told him i was sorry and i still want to hang out with him and he's like yeah right and than i got an e-mail from him and it was this chain that he sent to me and it said that like he will always be there for me and everything and how i'm a great friend..but later he sent me a message when i wasn't there and it said i hate you (one time i was talking about someone hating me and he said "who could hate you"). so it kills me to know that he hates me. and he pretty much said that he could never hate me. i have no idea what happened..cause we always kid about that stuff be he didn't say he was kidding or anything..i'm soo worried about our friendship now..and i didn't even do anything..i love this kid right to death and i would do anything for him..i never knew how much the words "i hate you" could feel until you hear it from the one person you would do anything in this world for..even give up your life for them to keep living. it hurt me so bad..and i just want to tell him but i don't know if i can even express to him how much it hurt me. please help me..i just want to know what to say to him..i know it's really what i feel i should say but i need some help. i rate high! please help me! i'm stuck in the gutter on this one. =/ (link)
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Usually when people REALLY mess up they know what they did...but since you dont know what you did wrong im assuming that he was just really mad and said it in the heat of things...and that happens a lot. He might have been really upset and didnt want to deal with it so he said he hated you. Hate is an extremely hard word and im sure he didnt mean it. But hes obviously upset right now so give it a couple of days before you go talk to him let him cool down and get his stuff together then call him and tell him that you want to talk him. Sit down with him and let him know how you feel that you are for him a lot and it really hurt you what he said. I hope that helps but just give him some time to cool off
Good Luck
Andi
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