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Okay you answered my question earlier about the situation with my co-worker. The thing is, yeah he knows I like him or whatever, and I guess now he wants to hear me say it to him now, and you are very right, it's awkard cause when we are around eachother, we touch more than we speak, and then again, we can't really talk that much cause we've got areas that we need to work in. We are both very shy and he's like one of those guys that's never really had a girlfriend, and I've never really had a boyfriend either, so it's alot harder for me to tell him I like him. I want to but I don't know how, and I wanna also break the silence between us as well. So what would be a good way to do that as well? (link)
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This is a tough one because you both work together and you're both shy and inexperienced. Not to mention the constant awkwardness on a daily basis. So let's see, how to break that silence. Hmm, well this would be a whole lot easier if the guy would just say something to light that "spark" to get things rolling but that's not happening. Do you know if he's actually talking about you when you're not around? You know, to his friends? Saying how great you are and how he would like to ask you out or something? If he isn't, maybe he isn't totally into you, like you are to him. Anyway, putting that aside, I think the best way to break this silence is to push the line of communication to another level not just inside work but outside, maybe go out with some friends, talk to him online, or talk about some of his interests at work and show him you care about what he cares about. The bottomline is be creative with your conversations, don't be afraid to bring up risky subjects, and if you really like him try to be flirty. ;)
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