Q: I was dating someone and he just stopped talking to me after I made a mistake. I keep telling myself that it's over and that I'm over him, but then something happens like a song comes on that we used to listen to all the time and I start thinking about him again.
I've tried talking to him, just trying to be his friend so I could get over him, but he doesn't want to talk to me. I gave up on that, but I still think about him and I miss him, because he was part of my life for a period of time and now he's just gone. It's really hard just to try to adjust your life without him in it.
I still have a few texts on my cell phone that he sent me, but I can't bring myself to delete those either.
He brought out the best in me, after I was depressed on and off, cutting myself, drinking, he changed it all and I think that might be the reason I can't just let him go.
Do you have any ideas how I can talk to him again to thank him, or should I let go?
