Member Since: July 20, 2005
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Last Update: August 15, 2005
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ok well theres this boy and me and him have been messin around basically for a year. We went out and i lost my virginity to him but then later on down the road it didnt work out. I still love him ALOT and we still chill all the time but i want to be more then just friends with him..idk what to do. I mean he tells me that we need to chill more and stuff but im wondering if its just to get something, or if he really wants to chill...please help! (link)
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Messing around with boys is not a good idea. Your just basically saying to him, "call me up whenever you want a quickie". If he likes you and is a mature person, he would ask you to be more than just friends before he started 'messing around' with you. I know most people don't do it that way mostly in highschool and all, but I'm telling you, thats how most people get hurt. I mean, how would you feel if he was hooking up with someone else at the same time he was hooking up with you? That would just cause more drama that's needed with you and him, and you and the other girl. I would talk to him about it first, ask him if he likes you, and ask him if he wants to make a commitment with you. and if he doesn't, i say you book it. he's not worth it if hes just a player.
i hope it works out.
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thank u so much for your help...i knew what to do all along but i guess it just helps when you hear it from someone else also. Its just really hard when u really love someone uk? but im really gonne try...thanks again!
-Sarah
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