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I'm a qualified colour therapist and I'm doing a course in psychotherapy and councelling. i have the letters SNHS after my name which means i have a diploma from The School of Natual Health Sciences.
I have life experience in mental health, agoraphobia,bullying,parents divorce.


advice

ok. heres the thing: guys have always been my best friends. id actually rather have guy friends then girls because guys dont gossip and dont start drama. well ever since i got a boyfriend hes been getting on me for flirting with other guys. BUT I DONT FLIRT WITH THEM ITS JUST THAT THERE MY BFF's AND I JOKE AROUND WITH HIM. how can i get my boyfriend to understand that im not flirting they're just my friends. i've tried telling him that and i've tried to stop hanigng out with the guys as much but nothing seems to work. HELP PLEASE. ill rate you high!!

Ok, dont give up your best friends just to please your new boyfriend. tell him that these guys have been your bestfriends for years and you wont stop being friends with them just to please him because what he is doing is unfair.
he seems insecure, maybe he's been hurt before but tell you how you feel. explain that it would be like you asking him to give up his best friends, its just not fair. also explain to him why these people are your friends and just because they are guys, doesnt mean that your going to get with any or all of them. they are friends and nothing more.

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(Rating: 5) thanks.=)
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