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Q: Ok so on Friday i am going to my freinds house for a "movie night" we're going to paly volleyball outside earlier and then later we're going to watch hide and seek. well no big deal. she invited 4 guys and 3 girls (shes the 4th girl). well its kinda like a paired off thing. she invited couples. except for me. she invited this guy. i kind of like him i guess. same with him. he told my freind he kind of likes me. well i dont know i thnk it's goign to br really weird. because all the other people are goign ot be with their girl/boyfreind and then there will be me and this guy. i like him and all but i dont know i think it will be weird.and im kind of worried that he's gonna like try something, because thats just the the kind of guy he is...so i guess i dont know what to do.
((14/f))

I guess you have two choices here.

1. Go to the party,just relax and enjoy yourself,if you just want to be friends with this guy and nothing else then i'm sure he will respect that choice. I'm sure he'd rather know you than a friend than not know you at all.

2.Don't go to the party.Sit at home and think about what is happening at the party and if you regret not being at it.Watch a movie and have some pop corn. Take it easy. Life is to much fun to be stressed about what other people are thinking. Live your life for you.

Rating: 5

thanks..i think i'll pick the first choice!

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