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lulabelle
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Ok, I have this problem, I am WAY TOO NICE to my family. I give them advice, (after all, I do have an advice coulumn here)I'm supportive of them, and all they do is take advantage of me, then they ditch me. For example, my cousin has a weight issue, and I help her, and even doctors say my advice was good. She agrees, at the doctors office. She totally ignores me outside of it. When I bring it up she's always like "I have better things to do then talk to you" and on the phone I constantly have to call her name because she doesn't listen to me, and that's just 1 example. They ridicule me one minute, ditch me another minute, then ask me for advice like they are my best friend. What do I do? I turned to masturbation and porno as a getaway- masturbating while watching porno, but more masturbation then porno. Worst thing is that I'm a strong Christian, and their semi athiest ways are rubbing off on me.Help me! And don't tell me to talk to them and stuff, because I've done this in a civilized manner 1000 times, and everyone in my family is stubborn because they think I'm lying all the time because I'm the youngest,and I should suck it up and forget what they say. Help me plz, srry that its so long though. (link)
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Since you are a Christian, let me put it this way:
Turn the other cheek.
If you are helping them because you want gratitude, then stop. If you are doing it to help them, then continue, and pray that they shape up.
Pray about it! It may help a lot.
If you really feel upset, then try not giving them advice for a while. They may finally appreciate you.
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how many times do people asume I'm doing it for gratitude? the key words are IM A CRISTIAN. its a sin to do things and expect something back, i do things freely, because when you expect something and don't get it, you'll be let down. i just need help with the ridicule and stuff, but thank ya!!
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