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Okay well laast week or so I was with a friend and she took me out iwth 2 of her friends andways long story short we were drinking and I ended up sleeping with this guy...I completly regret it now and I knw it was wrong that's not why I'm here....what are teh statistics and stuff on pulling out. And if we did it twice is tehre a even greater preganancy chance? Also I have a boyfriend and I think I lov ehim and I've never been in love before and I want him to know so bad but I just can't bring myself to tell him cuase I don't want to loose him....any help would be so apreciated....thanx

Sorry...I don't know the answer to the statistics on pulling out. But I do know that even if he pulled out there is still a VERY SMALL percentage of getting pregnant. The sperm can live exposed in the air for up to an hour. And there IS a greater chance of being pregnant, especially if you had sex with the guy twice. As for your second issue with telling your boyfriend, normally I would say 'don't tell him.' Because what he doesn't know won't hurt him. Then you said you really love him. If you were to tell him, he'd probably get very mad and maybe even not want to talk to you for a while. In that case you should give him space and time to think about what you told him. If you dont tell him, and he finds out later, he'd probably be even more mad then if you do tell him. He would feel like your entire relationship from when you thought you could be pregnant to the day he found out was a complete lie.
First I think you should find out for sure if you are pregnant or not bye buying a pregnancy test at any drugstore like CVS/pharmecy or Duane Reade. If you are pregnant then you should tell him right away. That way he doesnt find out by someone else later on. If it turns that you are not pregnant then don't tell him. But I think you should tell him that you cheated on him when you were drunk. If you don't than thats fine as long as he NEVER finds out. In order for that to happen make sure that whoever knows about the incident NEVER says anything.
Hope I helped! Lots of Luck :)

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