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Gender: Male
Location: East Texas
Occupation: College Student
Age: 19
Member Since: July 15, 2005
Answers: 28
Last Update: August 11, 2005
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Heyy, I wanted to ask you a question b/c you have good ratings, and you're a guy.
Let me tell you the reason I'm having a problem first: I go to a mostly girls school and so I never really had the chance to converse with guys, and I don't really know how to talk to them. And I am 17 years old if that helps :)
1) Is it weird for a girl to just randomly walk up to a guy in public and just start a random conversation??
2) How come if a guy sees a "hot girl" he'll just go straight up to her and talk to her, but if he sees a nice girl who's a little overweight he won't talk to her?
Ok I think that's it. I've never had a boyfriend (unfortunately) and I wanted to know how to go about meeting new people. Thanks a lot. (link)
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Thanks for coming to me first of all. 1) It is considered wierd or odd if a girl walks up to a guy and just starts talking. They might think you are wierd, which is not something you want. 2)That's the way society is really as of now. Most men have been brainwashed that tiny wastes and big tits is the way to go, so therefore guys take that to heart and go after only the hottest girls. Chances are that if you do get a guy that has that mentality of just getting the hottest girls, then you won't be with him long and he will probably be a butt. The best thing you can do in meeting new guys is to just start some casual conversation with them. Ask them their name and go from them. You're better off talking to them slowly and getting to know them that way, don't rush it though. You might try winking at him or smiling at him from afar. This will usually get the guy's attention and from there he will probably initiate the conversation, but if he doesn't fall back on the casual conversation. Oh and don't forget to introduce yourself, you want him to remember the name of the angel he conversed with. Hope I helped.
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